Decisive Clarity: The Entrepreneur's North Star
Introduction: In the ever-evolving world of entrepreneurship, especially within the dynamic landscape of the music industry, one principle has stood the test of time: the power of 'definiteness of decision.' As I approach my eighth year in this vibrant sector, I've taken a moment to reflect on this principle and its profound impact on my journey.
The Catalyst for Stories: Every entrepreneur has a starting point, a place of raw passion and ambition. For me, it was my bedroom—a space of dreams and aspirations. But even then, amidst the uncertainty and challenges, I was clear about one thing: I wanted to be a catalyst for great stories. My mission was (and is) to help artists shape culture at the highest level, to give them a platform where their voices could resonate and inspire.
Beyond the Call of Duty: In the early stages of any venture, there's a palpable hunger to make a mark. I remember those days vividly. I would go above and beyond for my artist and producer friends—securing venues, forging connections at streaming platforms, ensuring their music reached radio audiences. But this wasn't just about ticking off tasks on a checklist. It was about commitment, about showing up consistently, and about believing in a shared vision.
The Essence of Entrepreneurial Clarity: Entrepreneurship is a journey, one that demands more than just passion or skill. At its core, it requires clarity — a definiteness of decision. This clarity isn't just about knowing what to do; it's about understanding why you're doing it. It's about aligning your actions with a deeper purpose, one that resonates with your identity and values.
Without this clarity, entrepreneurs risk becoming rudderless ships. The vast ocean of opportunities can quickly become overwhelming, leading to aimless drifting. Instead of charting a clear course, one might find themselves hopping from one venture to the next, feeling perpetually unsatisfied and unfulfilled.
Finding Your North Star: So, how does one find this clarity? It starts with introspection. Take a step back and ask yourself: What drives me? What is the legacy I want to leave behind? What are the values I won't compromise on? Your answers will become the North Star that guides your entrepreneurial journey.
Conclusion: To all the budding and seasoned entrepreneurs out there, remember that while passion is the fuel, clarity is the compass. Embrace that definiteness of decision. Let it be the anchor that grounds you and the light that guides your way. Because when you have clarity of purpose, you're not just building a business; you're crafting a legacy.
May we keep going, growing, and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
Evidence Builds Confidence.
In the journey of personal and professional growth, confidence plays a pivotal role. But where does confidence come from?
Is it something we're born with, or is it something we can cultivate? Alex Hormozi, a successful entrepreneur and thought leader, offers a unique perspective on this. He says, "Don't build confidence. Build evidence. Confidence comes as a result of evidence. Not the other way around." This statement resonates deeply with me.
Confidence isn't about unwavering self-belief without basis. It's about accumulating evidence of our capabilities through our actions, our successes, and even our failures. Every step we take, every risk we embrace, and every challenge we overcome serves as evidence of our strength and resilience. And it's this evidence that fuels our confidence. In the realm of business, opportunities often present themselves as financial prospects.
However, I believe it's essential to view these opportunities not just as potential profit-makers but as chances to grow our capabilities. Each business venture, each negotiation, each collaboration is an opportunity to gather evidence of our skills, our adaptability, and our resilience. It's these experiences that shape us, that push us out of our comfort zones, and that ultimately bolster our self-confidence.
So, as we navigate our paths, let's focus on building evidence. Let's take action, embrace challenges, and celebrate our victories, no matter how small. Let's remember that every experience, every achievement, and every lesson learned is a testament to our capabilities. And it's this testament that builds unshakeable confidence. For more insights on personal growth and entrepreneurship, check out this article featuring Alex Hormozi's key secrets to scaling your business.
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷 Blessings, Milan
Stay In The Game.
In the realm of creativity and entrepreneurship, we often find ourselves on the edge of our comfort zone. It's here, in this space of optimistic discomfort, where growth and transformation occur. Simon Sinek, a renowned leadership expert and author, speaks about the concept of the "Infinite Game." In this game, the goal isn't to win, but to keep playing, to keep growing, and to keep evolving. This resonates deeply with me, especially when we talk about growth and discomfort.
1. Adopt an Infinite Mindset: As Sinek suggests, growth is a continuous journey, not a destination. We're not aiming to 'win' but to keep evolving, learning, and improving. This mindset keeps us in the game, no matter the challenges we face.
2. Embrace the Discomfort of Learning: When we commit to something we're not entirely sure how to do, we step into the unknown. But it's in this space of uncertainty where learning and growth happen. As Sinek says, "Infinite-minded leaders understand that 'best' is not a permanent state. Instead, they strive to be 'better.'"
3. Build a Supportive Team: Trust and cooperation are the cornerstones of any successful team. Don't hesitate to ask for help or collaborate with others. A supportive team can help you navigate through challenges and learn from them.
4. Prioritize Well-being: A safe and positive work environment is crucial for our physical and mental health. Regular breaks, exercise, a healthy diet, and adequate sleep can help us manage stress and prevent burnout.
Remember, as Sinek says, "The goal is not to be perfect by the end. The goal is to be better today." So, take on challenges that stretch you, but also respect your limits. After all, sustainable growth is about moving forward without compromising our wellbeing.
For more insights on how to manage growth and discomfort, check out this article and Simon Sinek's book, "The Infinite Game."
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
Optimistic Discomfort.
In the realm of creativity and entrepreneurship, growth often happens at the edge of our comfort zone. It's in that space of optimistic discomfort where we push ourselves to learn new skills, take on new challenges, and deliver on promises that stretch our capabilities. But, it's crucial to understand that there's a threshold to this discomfort.
Crossing this threshold can lead to feeling overwhelmed, disheartened, and can jeopardize the very projects we're passionate about. So, how do we navigate this delicate balance?
1. Know Your Limits: Understand your capabilities and the amount of discomfort you can or are prepared to handle. It's okay to push yourself, but be aware of your breaking point.
2. Embrace Learning: When you commit to something you're not entirely sure how to do, see it as an opportunity to learn. Acquiring new skills is a significant part of growth.
3. Seek Support: Don't hesitate to ask for help. Collaborate with others who can complement your skills and help you navigate through challenges.
4. Practice Self-Care: Ensure you're taking care of your physical and mental health. Regular breaks, exercise, a healthy diet, and adequate sleep can help you manage stress and prevent burnout.
Remember, growth is a journey, not a race. It's about consistent progress, not instant perfection. So, take on challenges that stretch you, but also respect your limits. After all, sustainable growth is about moving forward without compromising our wellbeing.
For more insights on why discomfort is essential for entrepreneurial success, check out this article.
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
Say No.
In the fast-paced world of the creative industry, opportunities often come knocking when you least expect them. It's an exhilarating part of what we do, but it can also lead to a common pitfall: the temptation to say yes to everything.
As someone who's been in the game for a while, I've learned that overcommitting can often lead to under-delivering, and that's a situation none of us want to find ourselves in.
Here's why mastering the art of prioritisation is crucial:
1. Quality Over Quantity: When we spread ourselves too thin, the quality of our work can take a hit. It's far better to commit wholeheartedly to a few projects and deliver top-notch results than to juggle too many and fall short.
2. Maintaining Balance: Overcommitment can be a fast track to burnout. Maintaining a healthy work-life balance isn't just important, it's essential. And that means knowing when to say no.
3. Building Trust: When we deliver on our promises, we build trust with our clients and collaborators. Consistently good service leads to repeat business and referrals, which are vital for growth.
So, how can we prioritise effectively?
Understand Your Capacity: Be realistic about how much work you can handle without compromising on quality or your wellbeing.
Align With Your Goals: Choose projects that align with your career goals. Every project you take on should be a step towards where you want to be.
Learn to Say No: It can be tough, but sometimes saying no is the best decision. If a project doesn't fit your goals or capacity, it's okay to turn it down.
Remember, our value as creatives isn't determined by how much we do, but by how well we do it. Prioritise effectively, and you'll not only produce better work but also enjoy a more balanced and fulfilling career.
For more insights on managing your workload in the creative industry, check out this article.
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
Organise Your Ideas.
Navigating the creative entrepreneurial journey often feels like spinning multiple plates at once. Each project is a unique dance of creativity, strategy, and execution, and it's both thrilling and challenging in equal measure.
One of the most crucial skills I've honed on this journey is the art of organizing my ideas effectively. It's more than just keeping a checklist of tasks - it's about crafting a clear roadmap that navigates the project from the spark of an idea to the finish line.
Here are some strategies that have been my compass:
1. Capture Your Ideas: Be it a notebook, a digital doc, or a voice memo, find your preferred method to seize your ideas as they come. This not only ensures you don't lose them in the hustle, but it also gives you a chance to revisit and refine them later.
2. Craft a Project Plan: For every project, create a detailed blueprint that outlines the steps needed to breathe life into your idea. This should include timelines, resources needed, and key milestones.
3. Prioritize: All ideas are not created equal. Some are more feasible or impactful than others. Learn to prioritize your ideas based on their potential value to your project or business.
4. Delegate: If you're fortunate to have a team, don't shy away from delegating tasks. This not only lightens your load but also allows others to contribute their unique skills and perspectives.
5. Reflect and Refine: Regularly review your progress and reflect on what's working and what's not. This will help you make necessary adjustments and keep your project on track.
Remember, creativity is a powerful tool, but without organization, it can lead to chaos rather than innovation. So, take the time to organize your ideas and watch as they transform into successful projects.
For more insights on how entrepreneurial creativity leads to innovation, check out this article
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
Navigating Brand Collaborations: A Balancing Act.
In the dynamic world of creative arts and entertainment, personal branding is a powerful tool. It's a way to showcase your unique talents, skills, and values to the world. But when it comes to collaborating with companies and consumer brands, the challenge intensifies.
I recently had the opportunity to work on a project that perfectly encapsulated this challenge. The task at hand was to create a collaboration that would generate awareness and conversions for a consumer brand without alienating the artist's audience. After much deliberation, we agreed that product placement in a music video would be the most effective strategy.
However, the key to the success of this collaboration was not just ensuring alignment between the respective consumer bases of the brands but also ensuring that the marketing method resonated with the audience.
In the world of brand collaborations, it's not just about who you collaborate with, but also how you collaborate. Understanding your audience and their preferences is just as important as understanding your partner brand.
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
Negotiate it.
Throughout my career, I've negotiated many contracts, from artist agreements to marketing partnerships. Each negotiation has taught me something new, not just about the art of negotiation itself, but about life as a whole.
Grant Cardone, though controversial to some, is a renowned property magnate and social media personality, once said, "In life, we don't get what we deserve. We get what we negotiate." This statement resonates with me deeply. It's a stark perspective, but it places the power to shape our lives firmly in our own hands.
Negotiation is about more than just reaching an agreement. It's about understanding the other party's needs, finding common ground, and creating a win-win situation. It's about communication, empathy, and strategic thinking. These are skills that are not only valuable in business but in all aspects of life.
In my personal life, I've found that these skills have helped me build stronger relationships, make better decisions, and navigate challenging situations with grace and resilience. They've empowered me to take control of my life and shape it in a way that aligns with my values and aspirations.
So, as we navigate the complexities of life, let's remember the power of negotiation. Let's strive to understand, to find common ground, and to create win-win situations. After all, life is not about getting what we deserve, but about negotiating for what we want.
For more insights on the importance of negotiation skills in life, check out this article.
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
Nurturing Bonds.
Reflecting on my childhood, I realise that the foundation of my confidence and success in my endeavours has been the healthy relationships I've cultivated, particularly within my family. I fondly remember the go-karting tournaments with my cousins, Sello and Sihle. These experiences not only fostered a sense of camaraderie and friendly competition but also strengthened our bond as a family.
In my journey, I've learnt that cultivating healthy relationships is an art that requires patience, understanding, and mutual respect. Here are a few principles that I've found to be crucial:
1. Communication: Clear and open communication is the bedrock of any healthy relationship. It's about expressing your thoughts and feelings honestly and listening with empathy when others do the same.
2. Respect: This is about acknowledging the inherent worth of the other person. It's about valuing their thoughts, feelings, and experiences, even when they differ from your own.
3. Trust: Trust is earned over time and is essential for a strong relationship. It's about being reliable, honouring your word, and being there for the other person when they need you.
4. Boundaries: Healthy relationships require a clear understanding of each other's boundaries. It's about respecting personal space and understanding that everyone has different comfort levels.
5. Quality Time: Spending quality time together is a great way to strengthen your bond. It's about being present, engaged, and genuinely enjoying each other's company.
Cultivating healthy relationships is a lifelong journey, but it's one that's well worth the effort. The bonds we form with others can provide a source of comfort, joy, and strength, enriching our lives in countless ways.
For more insights on cultivating healthy relationships, check out this article from Psychology Today.
Remember, the quality of our relationships often determines the quality of our lives. So, let's invest in our relationships and reap the rewards of love, connection, and mutual growth.
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
The Power of Friendship in the Creative Industry.
In the creative industry, the lines between personal and professional often blur. We pour our hearts into our work, and the people we work with become more than just colleagues - they become our friends.
Friendship in the creative industry is not just about having someone to share a laugh with during a break. It's about having someone who understands the highs and lows of the creative process, someone who can provide constructive feedback, and someone who can inspire you to push your creative boundaries.
In my journey, I've been fortunate to work with and befriend some incredibly talented individuals. From artists like Sishii to groups like Choplife Soundsystem, these friendships have not only enriched my life personally but have also played a crucial role in my professional growth.
A LinkedIn study found that 46% of professionals around the world believe having work friends enhances their overall happiness. Building bonds with others can make us feel more connected, which, in turn, can help boost productivity and engagement.
For more insights on the importance of friendship in the creative industry, check out this article from Forbes.
So, here's to friendship - the secret ingredient to a fulfilling and successful career in the creative industry. 🥂
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
The Power of Hands-On Learning.
In the realm of music production, artist management, and marketing strategy, there's a universe of theory to absorb. From the intricacies of sound engineering to the complexities of marketing analytics, the knowledge pool is vast. However, over the years, one lesson has stood out: the power of learning by doing.
In my early days, I was a sponge, eager to soak up every bit of information I could. Books, lectures, tutorials - you name it, I was on it. But the real magic happened when I started applying what I'd learned.
In the studio, I quickly realised that understanding the theory of sound engineering was worlds apart from actually manipulating sound waves to create the perfect mix. Similarly, in marketing, knowing the principles behind a successful campaign is one thing, but executing it is a different ball game.
Learning by doing is a principle that transcends my world of experience and applies to any profession or skill you wish to master. It's about diving in headfirst, making mistakes, and learning from them. And trust me; mistakes are some of the best teachers. They push you to confront what you don't know and find a solution.
In my journey, I've had the privilege of working with incredible artists and brands. These collaborations have taught me so much, not just about music, entertainment and marketing, but about resilience, creativity, and the power of a good story.
I’m so glad that I embraced the process of learning by doing. It might be messy, it might be challenging, but, it's worth it.
For more on the principle of learning by doing, check out this insightful article.
Remember, every expert was once a beginner. So, don't be afraid to dive in, make mistakes, and learn as you go. That's how you grow, and that's how you become better at what you do.
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
The African Renaissance: A New Era of Artistic Recognition.
The slow but steady rise in appreciation of African art and culture is a powerful force that's beginning to shift perspectives on a continent that is still often under-appreciated. As a passionate participant in the African music scene, I've had the opportunity to observe this shift from a unique vantage point.
The African continent has always been a rich tapestry of diverse cultures, languages, and artistic expressions. However, it's only recently that the global community has begun to truly appreciate and value this richness. This shift is not only crucial for the recognition of African artists and creatives, but it also plays a significant role in shaping the narrative of Africa as a whole.
In the music industry, we're seeing an explosion of African talent on the global stage. Artists like Burna Boy, Wizkid, and Davido are making waves internationally, and the music they create is deeply rooted in their African heritage. This rise in appreciation is not limited to music alone. African fashion, film, literature, and visual arts are also gaining recognition, contributing to a more nuanced and positive perception of the continent.
Working with African artists, I've seen the power of African art and culture to connect people, tell compelling stories, and challenge stereotypes. These artists are not only incredibly talented, but they also carry the rich heritage of their respective cultures in their work, offering the world a glimpse into the vibrant and diverse worlds that exist on the continent.
However, this rise in appreciation is about more than just recognition. It's about creating opportunities for African artists to thrive, fostering cultural exchange, and promoting understanding and respect for African cultures. It's about shifting the narrative and showing the world the true potential of Africa.
As Nigerian author Ben Okri said, "The most authentic thing about us is our capacity to create, to overcome, to endure, to transform, to love and to be greater than our suffering." This is the spirit that drives the rise of African art and culture.
As we continue to celebrate and support African art and culture, let's remember that this is not a trend but a long-overdue recognition of the rich cultural heritage that Africa has to offer. The future of Africa is bright, and I'm excited to be part of this journey.
For a deeper dive into the rise of African art, check out this article from CNN.
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
Lofi: The Sound of Productivity.
In the fast-paced world of the entertainment industry, finding ways to maintain focus, calm, and a positive mood is essential. One tool that has become a staple in my daily routine is Lofi music. This genre, characterised by its low fidelity and often instrumental nature, has been lauded for its ability to foster productivity, induce calm, and improve mood.
As a music producer, I have a particular affinity for Lofi music. Its snare-forward production style resonates with my own approach to music creation. The genre's use of jazzy chords and vinyl aesthetics adds a layer of complexity and nostalgia that I find appealing.
But my love for Lofi music goes beyond its technical aspects. It's also personal. The genre reminds me of coffee, another one of my passions. There's something about the smooth, ambient sounds of Lofi music that pairs perfectly with a cup of good coffee.
Perhaps the most significant reason I enjoy Lofi music is because of my brother. He introduced me to the genre years ago, and it's a connection we share. Every time I listen to a Lofi track, it brings back fond memories and strengthens the bond I have with him.
Lofi music's repetitive beats and lack of lyrical content make it an excellent choice for those seeking to improve their productivity. A study by Alexander Young suggests that the genre can help listeners stay focused amidst a sea of distractions, reducing procrastination and enhancing efficiency.
But the benefits of Lofi music extend beyond productivity. Its soothing, ambient sounds can also induce a state of calm, making it perfect for relaxation. According to an article on Domestika, the genre's roots in DIY music and its transformation over the years have made it a go-to choice for those seeking to unwind and de-stress.
Lastly, Lofi music can also play a role in mood enhancement. Harvard Health Blog suggests that music, in general, can activate almost all brain regions and networks, including those involved in well-being, cognitive function, quality of life, and happiness. This means that the simple act of listening to Lofi music can help keep these brain pathways strong, potentially leading to an improved mood.
In conclusion, Lofi music is more than just a genre; it's a tool that can be used to enhance various aspects of our lives. Whether you're working on a project, seeking to relax after a long day, or simply looking to boost your mood, consider giving Lofi music a try. You might be surprised by the benefits it can bring.
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
Link to the article "How to Improve Your Focus and Productivity with Mindfulness and Lofi Music"
No Qualification? No Problem.
Growing up, I always had a passion for music. It was a language that spoke to my soul, a creative outlet that allowed me to express myself in ways that words couldn't. But when I started university, I never imagined that this passion would lead me down the path of music management.
It all started with two artists I met at university. We began working together, creating music that resonated with us on a deep level. I found myself helping them discover their unique sound, engineering their tracks, and even producing some of their music. As our music started to gain traction, I leveraged my connections in the industry to secure playlisting, PR coverage, and radio play.
One day, a friend of mine, David, suggested that I should manage these artists. The idea was daunting. I had virtually no idea what "managing these artists" meant. But with humility and a lot of trepidation, I asked my friends if they would be open to working with me in this capacity. They agreed, and years later, I can confidently say it was one of the best pieces of advice I've ever taken.
This experience taught me that sometimes, opportunities come from unexpected places. Sometimes, we grow the most when we take on roles that we feel unqualified for. It's about taking that leap of faith and trusting that we'll land on our feet.
As Steve Jobs once said, "You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future."
So, if you're standing on the edge of a decision, unsure of whether to take the leap, remember that sometimes the nonlinear path can lead to the most rewarding destinations.
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
Clear Talk: A Lesson Learned.
In the whirlwind of the entertainment industry, emotions can run high and stakes even higher. I recently found myself in a situation that underscored the importance of clear, honest communication.
A few months into a project, I received an unexpected message from a client. They were upset, listing every misstep I had made. I was taken aback, believing these issues had been addressed and resolved.
Looking back, I realised the client had prioritised maintaining peace over expressing their true feelings at the time of the incidents. This unexpressed frustration had simmered, eventually boiling over.
This was a stark reminder of the importance of open, honest, and timely communication. It's crucial to address issues as they arise, rather than letting them accumulate. It's also vital to foster an environment where everyone feels comfortable expressing their thoughts and feelings.
In the entertainment industry, high-pressure situations and tight deadlines can sometimes lead to communication breakdowns. But by prioritising clear and honest communication, we can prevent misunderstandings, build stronger relationships, and create a more positive working environment.
As George Bernard Shaw once said, "The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place." Let's strive to ensure that our communication is not just an illusion, but a reality.
Check out this article on the importance of communication in the entertainment industry for more insights.
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
Humour: The Creative Equalizer.
Growing up, I was always the kid who loved a good laugh. I found humour in the most unexpected places and used it as a tool to navigate the ups and downs of life. Fast forward to today, and not much has changed. In the high-paced world of the creative industry, I've found that humour is still one of the best tools I have.
Humour is one of the best tools to navigate this journey. It's the great equalizer, the universal language that cuts through the noise and brings me back to our shared humanity. It reminds me that we're all in this together, fumbling our way through, and that it's okay to laugh at myself along the way.
I often find myself sitting in conversations (which some people call meetings) and cracking up internally at something I’ve observed about the subject matter of our conversation. More recently, I’ve taken to sharing my (mostly) idiotic and silly humour with the people in my life. It is such a great leveller and makes a world of difference to the quality of my interactions.
Taking ourselves too lightly? Now that's a serious business. It allows us to see the funny side of our mistakes, to learn from them and move on without being weighed down by self-criticism. It fosters resilience, creativity, and a sense of perspective that can be a lifeline in challenging times.
So, when I’m stressing over a project or a deadline, I take a step back, take a deep breath, and find something to laugh about. I’m always surprised at how much lighter I feel.
Remember, as we navigate this journey, let's not forget to enjoy the ride and share a laugh or two along the way. After all, we're only human.
As John Cleese, a renowned British comedian and actor, once said, 'Laughter connects you with people. It's almost impossible to maintain any kind of distance or any sense of social hierarchy when you're just howling with laughter. Laughter is a force for democracy.'
Check out this article on how to stop taking life too seriously for some practical tips.
PS: If you had to think about checking out the article, you probably should 😂
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
My Mosaic: A Journey Through Diversity.
Growing up as a child of mixed heritage, with an Indian mother and a Caucasian father, I often found myself straddling two worlds. My unique blend of features often led to mistaken identities - a Korean in one glance, a global citizen in another. I was a living testament to the beauty of diversity, a human embodiment of a cultural mosaic.
During my school years, I found myself in the company of friends from a myriad of backgrounds - a vibrant tapestry of faiths, cultures, and beliefs. Sundays were reserved for church visits with my grandmother, where I absorbed the teachings of Christianity. As a child, this rich exposure to diverse cultures and faiths felt as natural as breathing.
It wasn't until my university years that I realised my upbringing was not the norm. A conversation with a friend brought this to light, but instead of viewing it as an anomaly, I saw it as a blessing (and still do).
This kaleidoscope of cultural experiences has instilled in me a deep sense of acceptance and curiosity. It has broadened my perspectives, deepened my understanding, and fuelled my fascination with the human condition. It has taught me that there is no single 'right' way to exist, to believe, or to live. Our uniqueness is our strength, and our diversity is our beauty.
So, here's to celebrating diversity, fostering acceptance, and nurturing curiosity. May we continue to learn from each other, to honour our differences, and to cultivate unity in diversity. And if you’re out there feeling like you don't quite fit the mould - keep shining. You're not alone, and you're wonderful just as you are.
"It is time for parents to teach young people early on that in diversity there is beauty and there is strength." - Maya Angelou
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
Adversity's Silver Lining.
Drawing from my personal experiences, I've come to understand that adversity, while challenging, often serves as a catalyst for growth and transformation.
As a child, I faced physical bullying at school, a period that was both painful and humiliating. However, it was through this adversity that I learned valuable lessons about empathy, understanding, and standing up for myself.
In the face of bullying, I learned to look into the world of others to understand why someone would feel the desire to exert force over me. This understanding taught me that it's very difficult to hate something if we truly understand it. It also helped me develop a deep sense of empathy, a trait that has served me well in my career and personal life.
Moreover, this experience taught me the importance of asking for help and standing up for myself. It showed me that there's strength in vulnerability and power in dialogue. These lessons have been instrumental in my journey, shaping me into the person I am today.
While I can’t say that I am the biggest fan of war leaders, Winston Churchill’s words do stand out for me: "A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." This reminds me that every challenge we face is an opportunity for growth and learning.
So, my big learnings here are: remember that it's okay to ask for help, it's okay to stand up for yourself, and it's okay to be vulnerable. I need to embrace these moments as opportunities for growth, and remember, the lessons I learnt (and continue to learn) in overcoming adversity have often served as the foundation for my greatest achievements.
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
Link to the article "19 Short Inspirational Quotes for Overcoming Adversity"
Unmasking Imposter Syndrome.
Throughout my journey in the entertainment industry, working with artists and sports stars at the top of their careers, I've often found myself grappling with a sense of self-doubt. A nagging question that lurks in the back of my mind: "Am I really good enough?" This is a sentiment that many of us, especially in creative and leadership roles, can relate to. It's known as imposter syndrome.
Imposter syndrome is a psychological pattern where an individual doubts their skills, talents, or accomplishments and has a persistent fear of being exposed as a "fraud". It's a common phenomenon that affects many successful people, from artists and athletes to executives and entrepreneurs (and me).
The truth is, imposter syndrome can be a real challenge, but it's not insurmountable. It's about recognising these feelings when they arise, understanding that they're not reflective of your true abilities, and learning to navigate through them.
One of the ways that I combat imposter syndrome is to remind myself of my accomplishments and the value that I bring. It's about owning my successes, however big or small, and understanding that I've earned my place through hard work, dedication, and talent.
Another way is to realise that everyone, even the most successful individuals, have moments of doubt. As the renowned author John Steinbeck once confessed, "I am not a writer. I've been fooling myself and other people." If someone as successful as Steinbeck can experience these feelings, it's a reminder that we're not alone in this.
Lastly, it's important to foster a supportive environment where open conversations about these feelings are encouraged. By normalising these discussions, we can help each other navigate through our moments of self-doubt and reinforce a positive, affirming culture.
So, remember this: You are enough. You are not an imposter. You are talented, capable, and deserving of your success. And on those days when self-doubt creeps in, remember the words of Grammy-winning singer Chris Martin, "It's helpful to have some arrogance with paranoia... finding balance between his arrogance and his paranoia."
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan
Link to the article "7 Quotes on Imposter Syndrome That Will Help You Gain Confidence”
Creative Leadership: Vision, Adaptability, Empathy.
Leadership in the creative industry is a fascinating dance, a blend of vision, adaptability, and a deep understanding of the creative process. It's a journey I've both witnessed and am on, and it's taught me some invaluable lessons. Drawing from the wisdom of Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich" and the insights from this article, here are some thoughts on leadership in our vibrant industry.
Leadership isn't about power, but about creating an environment that nurtures growth, creativity, and respect. It's about having the courage to take risks, the self-control to maintain balance, and a keen sense of justice to ensure fairness.
In our industry, we often find ourselves navigating uncharted territories. The path to success is rarely linear, and the challenges we face can be as diverse as they are numerous. But through it all, the importance of good leadership remains constant.
One of the key attributes of leadership that resonates with me is the definiteness of decision. As creatives, we are often faced with a multitude of choices. The ability to make a decision, stand by it, and adapt as necessary is crucial. It's not about always making the right decision but about making a decision and making it work.
Another attribute that stands out is the willingness to do more than what's expected. In a world that's constantly evolving, going the extra mile can make all the difference. It's about not just meeting expectations, but exceeding them.
But perhaps the most important attribute of all is empathy. Understanding and sharing the feelings of others is what allows us to connect on a deeper level. It's what fosters a sense of community and unity, which is especially important in the creative industry.
As we navigate the complexities of the creative industry, let's remember the importance of good leadership. Let's strive to embody these attributes and lead with courage, empathy, and unwavering dedication.
May we keep going, growing and learning 🥷
Blessings,
Milan